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How Do Tarot Cards Actually Work?

How Do Tarot Cards Actually Work?

I came across a fellow readers website the other day. I must admit their selling strategy slightly offended me. Tarot readings are growing in popularity and there is so much competition nowadays it is no wonder people feel a need to screw over their rivals to earn some $.

Anyways, this readers selling tactic made a claim that readers who use tarot cards are scam artists and buyers should be wary of purchasing from them (to avoid being scammed).

This is kinda a bummer that even people in the psychic/spiritual industry are against tarot cards. We are misunderstood by a lot of society as a whole as being scam artists and not to mention many religious groups.

We might have naively thought we would be accepted in the spiritual community with open arms. Nope. Apparently not.

I have to admit their selling tactic irritated me a little because not only was this sneaky and underhand, it perpetuates the idea that all tarot card readers are scam artists (which is obviously false).

It did get me thinking about how tarot cards actually work though.

The mistake in the way this reader conveyed tarot cards was that it is cheating to use them. That they are a magical object that can give you all the answers without any work, effort or skill involved.

This is factually incorrect. Tarot cards do not work by some sort of magic. They don’t give you the answers. Do you want to know how they really work? Its you.

You see. It is not actually the cards giving you the answers. It may seem like is but it is not actually the cards themselves. You would be able to get answers from anything. Tealeaves. A sofa cushion. A brick. These mundane objects wouldn’t be described as being magical and neither should tarot cards.

It is you that derives a meaningful message from spirit by using these tools. These objects act as a mere trigger for your inherent psychic prowess. Tarot cards is just one way you can do this. You can test this yourself and prove it is not the tarot cards that give you answers.

Close your eyes, ask a question and see what comes to mind. You may see something in your minds eye or have something come to memory and you will find that you will be accurate in your predictions.

The way tarot cards work is through a combination of intuition, symbolism, and interpretation. When a person draws a card or multiple cards from the deck, they are essentially tapping into their subconscious mind and the collective unconscious.

The images on the cards serve as powerful symbols that can trigger insights and messages from within.

The reader then interprets the meaning of the cards based on their knowledge of tarot symbolism and their intuition.

Each card has multiple layers of meaning, allowing for different interpretations depending on the context of the reading.

Tarot cards are just one way we can read others. Your ability to do so does not depend on you having a pack of tarot cards, you have innate intuitive abilities which allows you to do so.

So, using tarot cards does not make you less than readers who use any other method so don’t let anyone discourage your practice if you feel called to use tarot!

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The Four of Swords – Tarot Card Meaning and Interpretations

Four of Swords

Key Words) Respite, Taking a break, Recuperation, Retreat

The four of swords suggests that you are battle weary and in desperate need of a break. This card signifies that you have pushed yourself to the brink of exhaustion and now it’s time to take a well-deserved pause and recharge your batteries.

We all know that feeling of being energetically drained after being immersed in a high-pressure and overstimulating environment, and this is precisely what this card symbolizes.

Think about those moments when you’ve pushed yourself to put in extra hours at work, when you’ve gone to countless social events and absorbed the energy of those around you.

Now, you are left feeling completely drained, craving solitude, and have the desire to disconnect from the outside world, to not utter a word or engage in anything.

General

The four of swords suggests that you will enter a quiet phase in your life. This a good sign if you’ve been experiencing a lot of chaos in your life. You will finally have some much-needed time for yourself!

Love

If you happen to be single, the four of swords suggests that you will continue to be for the foreseeable future. It indicates that you will be taking some time out away from the dating scene. That’s not to say you won’t enjoy your own company but you may not be very active in your love life for now.

This isn’t necessarily a bad thing. Seeing the Four of Swords crop up can mean that some time out is just what you need. It can help you come to a better understanding about your own desires and needs. This in turn can help you attract a desirable partner in the future. Also, being single gives you a sense of freedom. You can live life on your own terms!

However, if you are craving companionship seeing the four of swords isn’t exactly the best sign to see as it does indicate you will be alone for the forseeable future.

I have seen the Four of Swords crop up when someone feels fed up of dating as well. It can mean that you have been on your fair share of failed dates that you are taking the initiaive and are actively taking yourself out of the dating scene.

If you happen to be in a relationship, you or your partner may decide to take a break from one another. Remember, this break may only be temporary and it may actually help to strengthen your relationship.

Feelings

Whoever you are asking about wants to take a break from you. This does not indicate a lack of love, but rather a need for some personal space at the moment.

They may be feeling overwhelmed or irritated by your presence, and simply want some time to themselves. Alternatively, they might be feeling lost in the relationship and want to reconnect with their own identity.

Remember the saying “absence makes the heart grow fonder”. With some time and space apart, their feelings may grow.

Career

The Four of Swords predicts that you will push yourself to the point of burnout. It indicates that you will need to take a much-needed rest after overworking yourself. Instead of focusing on your career goals, you will have to take some time off to prioritize self-care.

Business

There may be a lull in your business. Sales may slow or come to a stop entirely. This may or may not be self-imposed. It could indicate that you have taken on more than you can handle so you burn yourself out to the point of exhaustion. Your business won’t grow for the foreseeable future while you recuperate.

Financial

You may be too exhausted to try and earn money. You may not have the energy to put yourself out there and hustle as you have pushed yourself too hard. Spending time alone doing nothing at home or in nature will build up your energy reserves.

This is nothing to feel bad about, the four of swords is a sign you have overdone it and now you have no leftover energy to try and earn right. You cannot pour from an empty cup nor are you a robot. After a period of rest, you will have the vigor to hustle.

As a Blessing

You will experience some much needed tranquility and peace after a stressful period. Taking a break will heal you, boost your energy and make you feel more like yourself again.

You won’t need to worry about experiencing any unnecessary stress or drama, peace and quiet will be a theme in your life.

The four of swords is a sign that all will be well after a break. If you are concerned about the future of a relationship or career path, you need not be as all you need is to take a break from this person or situation and all will resolve on their own accord.

As a Challenge

You will feel a sense of lethargy and exhaustion. The four of swords is a sign you have worked to the point of burn out and have no fuel left in the engine, figuratively speaking.

You may want to put yourself out there and date, work on your career or whatever else but you are mentally and physically drained and cannot do so.

The four of swords can predict illness or hospitalization. However, I would be cautious when making health predictions, tarot is not a substitute for professional medical advice.

Advice

The Four of Swords advises you to take a much-needed rest. Whether it’s from work, a business project, or a relationship, you must acknowledge that you’re pushing yourself too hard. Failure and burnout are inevitable if you continue to neglect self-care and don’t take some time for yourself.

Yes, No or Maybe?

The four of swords is a maybe. You need to give this issue some space.

When will it happen?

13th-22nd of October

Reversed Interpretations

Refer to the guide for reversals for help with interpretations.

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Are there questions we should avoid asking the tarot?

Are there questions we should avoid asking the tarot?

Tarot cards are an incredible tool that can uncover valuable information that might otherwise remain hidden. Sure, the library may have volumes on volumes of books, but those books can’t give you a clear “yes” or “no” answer, and they certainly can’t predict the future or tell you how your lover feels. Some people might argue, “Well, isn’t the uncertainty what makes life exciting?” but I don’t necessarily agree. What if you want to be prepared for what’s to come? What if your significant other isn’t exactly truthful with you? What if a straight-up “yes” or “no” answer is exactly what you need?

That’s where tarot comes in. In my personal experience, tarot has been a reliable source of truth and insight. Of course, it’s not a foolproof method, but then, neither is the weather forecast, and that doesn’t stop us from checking it! Asking the tarot may have its limitations, but it’s ultimately up to you to decide what questions to ask. Nobody should tell you what you should or shouldn’t be doing with your tarot cards.

Perhaps you’ve had a fantastic experience with tarot in the past and feel inspired to tell others to use tarot for self-improvement, rather than relying on it to predict the future. It’s wonderful that you have had this experience and wish to help others. However, it can be problematic to impose your personal beliefs and ideals on others.

Introducing new ways of practicing tarot is great, but dictating what others should or should not do is not. It’s vital to remember that what works for you may not work for everyone else.

While the tarot can guide us towards achieving something, it’s not a guarantee that the advice will be beneficial. We have free will and are free to decide whether we want to follow the guidance or not. Emotional, mental, and spiritual readiness play a significant role. We may not be, and shouldn’t be judged for not being ready to make changes. Sometimes the tarot suggests something that doesn’t align with our nature or goes against our moral code, and we may not follow it.

When it comes to predicting with tarot, one might ask, “But wait, don’t we have free will?” After all, some people believe that the future is not predetermined. However, the debate between free will and determinism has been ongoing for quite some time without a universal consensus. While some may believe that the future is fixed, or at least partially so, others turn to tarot to confirm what may come to pass and prepare themselves mentally for upcoming events, or sometimes even attempt to change them according to their beliefs.

As for “morally questionable” questions (I.e. reading for third parties), it is not your place, nor anyone else’s, to force moral beliefs on others. Therefore, it’s best to adhere to your moral compass and decide for yourself regarding the reading of others’ lives or feelings. If you think it’s always inappropriate, avoid it. If you think it’s appropriate, proceed.

Some people say that tarot isn’t fit for yes or no questions. However, while tarot is great at answering open-ended questions, it can provide a yes or no answer. I’ve even witnessed and personally used tarot for answering such questions.

It’s important to acknowledge that some people simply want a yes or no answer, without the need or desire for further details. Tarot can provide these answers and it’s crucial to respect the individual’s right to block out any information they don’t wish to know.

Let’s say you’re curious whether or not you’ll pass an exam. In this moment, you may just want a straightforward answer – either a yes or a no. You may not need or want a lengthy explanation on the exam itself, just the outcome.

Some may argue that it would be better to receive guidance on how to pass the exam to the best of your ability. But not everyone feels this way. What if the tarot advises cheating, which is not an option for you? Or study hard when you simply don’t have the time or energy? Sometimes it’s nice to have a clear indication of your chances, and then seek guidance on how to proceed accordingly. So yes, answering these questions with tarot is possible and can be quite helpful!

The beauty of the tarot is that there truly are no right or wrong questions to ask. It’s all about following your heart’s intuition and seeking the knowledge you want to know in that moment. Whether you’re looking for guidance or simply curious, the tarot is a resource that is available to you. We all have the freedom to inquire about whatever information we desire to know using the tarot, and this intellectual and spiritual freedom is truly a beautiful thing.

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Death – Tarot Card Meaning and Interpretations

Death

Key Words) Endings, Transformation, Change

Whenever you see Death as an outcome, this indicates something will come to an end. This could be a job, a relationship, a friendship. Whatever the subject is, Death is a sign that you will lose something or someone (metaphorically).

There might even be tears when you lose something that you have put a lot of energy into but in time, you will move on toward a new lover, new job, new friendship etc. The transition will be tough at first but Death is a sign you are onto something bigger and better.

The response to Death is very subjective. Some people handle change very well and even thrive on it and some people may struggle to let go of the old and get used to new things. I have mostly Sagittarius in my birth chart so I can adapt to change rather well. I seem to get over things as quickly as I fall in love with them and am very excited by change. Perhaps if you are a ‘fixed’ sign you might find it harder to adapt?

The point I am making is that Death might have positive and negative connotations for you depending on how you view change and how well you adapt to it. It also depends on how attached you are to them. Is Death good or bad? I feel this can depend on your perception of change.

I see Death crop up when someone is aware something is coming to an end. They have come to an understanding that they are onto new and better things and are welcoming this change. Death does not always indicate the loss will be painful.

However, there is no escaping the fact that Death can indicate that for a period, we will suffer as we lose something that is dear to us but inevitably, this will make room for the new. Even though the transition will be difficult, keep in mind that there will be something better than you can imagine just around the corner.

Here are some possible interpretations for you. Always use your intuition when interpreting your own readings though. Always trust what your inner voice is telling you 🙂

General

Death means that you will undergo huge changes. Very soon, you will see major shifts happening in your life. You may lose a job and go onto a new career path, you may undergo a change in values or lose someone close to you.

Either way, big changes are happening and your life will completely transform. Although the transition will be challenging at first, you will eventually adapt and be happier in this brand new phase of your life you are going onto.

Love

Death indicates that your relationship or love affair will come to an end. With Death, it is a sign that you and your current partner or love interest will move on from each other and go toward someone new.

You may be well aware that you have outgrown each other and are excited to meet someone new. However, if you feel attached, this loss will be painful. Although you will eventually adjust to these changes and find happiness with a new lover.

Feelings

Death means that they feel they have outgrown this connection and feel that it is best that you part ways. They don’t see a future with you.

Career

Death is a sign that you will undergo a career change. Death indicates that you will go into a new line of work completely. You will lose your current role but you will eventually find a brand new position.

Business

Death means that you will lose your business. You will lose customers and your finances will take a hit. Because of these circumstances, you will be forced to go onto a new business venture or look for alternative work.

Financial

An income stream will be cut off. Death can mean you will lose your job or business so you will need to think of a new way to make money. I.e start up a new business, get a new job. Keep working hard and looking for alternative options and you will eventually come across a new and better way to make money.

As a blessing

Out with the old and in with the new is a key phrase for Death. You will experience change for the better. Although you may lose a job role or there will be an end to a love affair, someone or something better will take its place.

As a challenge

You will be so attached to someone or something that you may be fearful that you will never find anyone (or anything) that measures up. It will be a struggle to let go of them. You will find it a challenge to move on and adapt to new circumstances.

As Advice

Death advises you to put something to an end. Are you in a dead end job or relationship? The advice from the Death card is to take the initiative and start a new career path, love affair etc. Your current circumstances aren’t benefiting you.

Yes, No or Maybe?

Death is a no.

Timing/When will it happen?

23rd October – 22nd of November (Sun in Scorpio)

However, Death can also mean that something will never happen.

Reversed Interpretations

Refer to the guide for reversals for help with interpretations.

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The Hanged Man – Tarot Card Meaning and Interpretations

The Hanged Man

Key Words ) Sacrifice, Gaining a new perspective, Uncertainty

The hanged man represents being in a state of ‘limbo’. Think of times when you are unable to move forward because you are waiting for answers from someone. It means you will be left ‘hanging’ so to speak.

To me, seeing the hanged man is the absolute worst. Even if the answer is no, I would rather know the truth than be in a perpetual state of suspense. In fact, I would rather experience a ‘tower moment’ than be in the energy of the hanged man. That is just my personal preference though 🙂

The hanged man means you will need to make a sacrifice to make something work. Perhaps you will need to give up a part of yourself to make a relationship work with someone you love. Perhaps you will need to give up an hour of your free time so you can build a successful business.

To understand the hanged man, think about the times when you have felt stuck because you were waiting on an answer from someone. Has a lover ever told you they need time and space to think about things? Think about when you had to sacrifice yourself in some way in order to get what you want (I.e a person, job role etc.). That is the energy of the hanged man.

General

The hanged man indicates you will be left ‘hanging’. This card is a sign that you won’t be able to move forwards just yet because you will first need to wait for answers.

You may be waiting for an answer from your lover because they need time to think about the relationship. You could be waiting to receive examination results before you make plans to go on to the next stage of your education. The hanged man indicates you won’t have all the answers yet. This means that you will feel stuck for a while before you can make a choice.

Love

The hanged man can mean that you will need to give up parts of yourself so you can be with (or attract) someone else. You feel you need to suppress personality traits or abandon your values just to make the relationship work.

The hanged man can mean that if you are with someone, they will get cold feet. They may put the whole relationship on pause because they will suddenly feel uncertain about you. This might not necessarily be permanent but they may need time to think about this connection before moving forwards.

If you are dating, the hanged man could be a sign you will be stood up by someone.

It could be you that pulls the plug though. Look to spread positions and use your intuition to make a judgement about this.

Feelings

As feelings, the hanged man is a sign that they feel uncertain about you. They don’t know what direction they want this relationship to go.

It means that they do not want to make a serious commitment with you right now. They need time to think about things before moving forwards with you.

This card can indicate that your person resents you because they feel they make too many sacrifices for you. They feel they cannot be themselves just so they can make you happy.

Career

The hanged man indicates that you will be at a crossroads in your career. You will feel uncertain about the current career path you are on so you will need to take a step backward to assess how you are going to move forwards.

The hanged man can indicate that you may need to take some time out to help you reignite your passion or to help you solve a problem that you are stuck on.

The card can also mean that you will be required to put in more hours working to see results i.e getting that promotion.

Business

If you are in a business partnership with someone, the hanged man can be a sign that they will pull out of any business plans that they make with you. If the hanged man appears, it would be wise not to make too many plans or investments with them because they may not be able to move forwards with your plans. The hanged man can be a sign it is best to wait to see how things unfold before making any business plans with them.

Seeing the hanged man here may indicate that you need to make sacrifices for your business to succeed. I.e. you may need to stay up later or get up earlier or give up a hobby so you have time to work on your business and see the success you’re after.

The hanged man could also be advising you to take some time out from your business to gain a new perspective. You may be so engrossed in your work that you are failing to see solutions to your problems. Taking some time out will help you see things from a new angle and allow you to solve the problems you are facing.

You may need to gain a new perspective from someone else. The hanged man advises you to ask for another persons advice to help you solve business related problems as well.

Financial

The hanged man can be a sign that you are coming up to a time where your budget is tighter. You will need to think about cutting back on your expenditure. You may not be able to afford as many ‘luxuries’ as you usually would.

As a blessing

The hanged man indicates you will gain a fresh new perspective which will help you solve any problems you have been facing. The hanged man is a sign that you will be able to see a new way of doing things which will get you out of the rut you are in.

As a challenge

The hanged man means that you will need to make sacrifices that you won’t like. It can also mean that you will be left in a state of uncertainty or suspense as you wait for answers (which obviously isn’t pleasant!).

As advice

The hanged man advises you to take some time out. You are currently swept up in the drama and madness of life so you are unable to see a way out. Taking some time to yourself, meditating or walking in nature will help you gain a new perspective which will enable you to solve problems and move forwards.

Yes, No or Maybe?

Maybe, although sometimes a no, this depends on the context.

Timing/When will it happen?

18th February – March 20th (Sun in Pisces)

The Hanged Man can also mean the timing is unknown. There are too many variables hanging in the balance so you must wait for things to unfold.

Reversed Interpretations

Refer to the guide for reversals for help with interpretations.

Do they love me? A tarot spread

This is a tarot spread to help uncover whether or not your person loves you.

An example reading is included to help you with your own interpretations 🙂

1) Their feelings

This position reveals what your person truly feels about you. It will show you whether they feel feelings of warmth or aversion toward you. With the world coming out here, this shows your person loves you and would go to the end of the earth to make you happy.

2) What they think of you

This card will show you what your person really thinks of you. It will indicate thier opinion of you and whether they value you or not. The queen of swords here indicates that they see you as difficult to please, perhaps even unattainable. They want to devote themselves to you but feel they cannot do enough to make you happy.

3) Do they want to be with you

This position will show you whether want to be in a long-term relationship with you. The card here will indicate if they see a future with you and if they feel this connection can work for the long term. The two of wands here shows that yes, they do want to be with you and feel you could work really well together as a couple. So, bringing it all together, these cards indicate that yes, your person does love you and puts you on a bit of a pedestal actually. However, it seems that they are craving more closeness between you.

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How do they really feel about you? A Tarot Spread

This is a tarot spread to help you reveal how your person really feels about you. If you are getting mixed messages from your crush, your partner or whoever else, this spread is perfect to help reveal how they truly feel about you.

I will go through each position one by one to help you understand what each position means along with a sample reading to help you with your own interpretations 🙂

 

1) What they show you

This position indicates how your person of interest outwardly treats you. This shows what feelings they have directly expressed to you. This doesn’t necessarily show you how they truly feel about you as this could just be facade they put on. You will need to look to other cards in the spread to infer whether this is the case or not.

With the ten of cups, your person tells shows great interest in starting up a home and family with you. They tell you they would like to be with you forever.

 

2) Their hidden feelings for you

This shows you how your person truly feels about you. It reveals what feelings are bubbling under the surface. These are feelings which they don’t outwardly express toward you. This could be because they are not consciously aware of their true feelings or are simply too scared to tell you.

With justice here, your person feels emotionally disconnected from you. They are not as emotionally attached as they appear. Your person wants to get married (or become ‘official’), but only to enhance their status.

 

3) Do they like you?

Quite simply, this position indicates whether your person actually likes you or not.

With the seven of swords, your person does not genuinely like you and is hiding how they truly feel about you. This confirms that your person does not like you for you but sees you as someone who can enhance their social standing.

 

 

4) What do they want from this connection?

This reveals what they truly want from you. This will help you understand why they want to associate with you in the first place. Are they using you? Do they genuinely just enjoy your company? Do they truly want to be with you?

With the knight of cups, your person wants to act like a knight in shining armor to win you over. This could be a favorable card in this position but because of the other cards in the spread, this tells me that they would like to win you over for the wrong reasons (to enhance their status).